Destiny is Desires, Determinations & Destinations… (4D)

Since childhood, I learned one thing very clearly that you have to fight for your battle. No one else can do this for you.

If a child thinks,

 He does not want to learn to walk,

Does not want to learn to talk,

Does not want to learn to eat, etc. etc...

How come, someone can help this poor child?

No matter what are the conditions , surroundings and circumstances are , you have to learn and proved in the life that it was a piece of a cake.

But, as we grow, we are forgetting these fundamental lessons of the life and start believing in luck or destiny.

A child has no choice to say that he/she cannot do this and as a parent you don’t give it up, regardless how many failures come down the road of this learning?

It doesn’t matter, how much you love to your child, still you want to see him walking even though he is failing on every step.

But, what happens after that, we start believing that it is my destiny and by just accepting these failures, we tell, ohh! This is due to my past life karma, I have to tolerate this.

Rather than figuring out our mistakes and to correct them by trying our effort again and again, we choose a path of self-realization of escape.

If past life karma has anything to do with your current situation or failure, you might have learned so many thing without any trial and error. It means this life karma will decide next life and this thing will go on forever in vicious circle of life and faith.

Technically our failures or regrets or depression or sorrows or grieves all are nothing just a mere of our own acceptances of not trying hard. This is due to lack of desires & determinations that gradually become an obstacle in our achievements.

Every one of you might be agree, a happiest person on this earth is no one except a child. Think Why?

 The reasons is very obvious, he cries for his failures but still try and try again, till he gets succeeds. But an adult can make a false impression or to pretend happiness and least trial for an effort but easiest thing is to accept his failure as a destiny.

Actually, what is a destiny, for that I am going to tell you a story, which will clear my point of view?

Long time ago, there was an arrogant, ruthless and cruel king. He always believes in himself and never gives up on any failure. In his command failure means death. His public likes him but his knights & ministers hate him, the reason was obvious, he was a hard nut for them.

One day, a man, who was a saint cum astrologer, came to his Kingdome. He thought, he will get a good welcome from the king but king did not pay much attention towards him.

This man said to the king, you are a mean and ruthless person, you have no mercy or feeling for humanity, you will die in couple of years.

King listen his declaration very carefully and asked to him, OK, I will die in a couple of years. What about you, how longer you will live?

This man took a deep sigh and with a smile said,

King, I will live another 40/50 years.

The king asked this man, Are you sure about this?

The man said, Yes, I am very positive, it will happen, no matter what, because this is my “Destiny”.

The king thought for a while, stood from his throne, he took out his sword and cut the neck of this person.

What this story tells us, Destiny is nothing just an illusion of our thinking.

If you don’t believe in yourself and think you will not succeed then in the result, you will be a failure.

We write our own destiny with positive thinking, attitude and actions applied towards achieving our dreams or goals.

I always believe, if you want to make your dreams come true? Follow these rules.

First, see the dreams,

Second, lay out a plan to achieve these,

Third, take an action to full fill these dreams.

It does not matter, how much impossible you were dreaming, all does it matters that you should have a burning desire for them. Ask yourself?

Do I have desires to full fill them?

Do I have a Plan to accomplish them?

Did I try hard enough to get them?

Destiny comes after all these Dreams (Desires), Dedication (Determination) and Destination.

Get up, see a dream and go for it.

By
Kapil Kumar 

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