If you can conceive a single word which is almost forbidden in any society, I am sure that surely is “Sex”. It’s an irony that human existence depends on this and they knowingly or unknowingly denied for this.
Human has completed more than a million years for his culture, yet this word has not gotten any respect what it deserved.
I am not able to understand, how come someone become a bad human being by just using this word?
I think this is the only word in the English dictionary which can be used as a humiliation, disrespect, torture, fun, molestation, etc. against someone.
I thought over & over this and thought possible reasons that make human so conservative using this word and feels shy talking about “Sex”, not only that whenever someone used this word, that person suddenly become the center of attention.I analyzed this and established some interesting facts, maybe some of these you already aware of.
Let us understand, what is a “Sex”, In the term of biology, it can be considered one of the normal function of our body.
In daily life every species consume the food to get the energy for living, in the response to this consumption of the food, his body extract the required portion out of the food and leave the waste in the form of urine and stool.
Not a big deal, we all know this, for an animal or a human this is a routine cycle. Similarly, when a man or animal feels the urge in their body they go for the sex. Technically, it is as good as drinking water to quench thirst or eating food for starvation and later on eliminating the waste from the body to feel light then why this “Sex” has become so much attractive to human and animal?
Why it has not been considered as one of the normal functions?
I watched a couple of videos of lions, bisons, deers, monkeys and other animals. A very interesting fact, which I observed was that for these animals “Sex” is the representation of their strength & power.
Let us consider an example of a lion pack, usually in a pack there are a couple of lioness and one or more lion. One of the lions is the boss of this pack, in the technical language, he is the chief of this pack, he has first right to eat the meat, yet he is not doing hunting, however he maintains his authority in mating with a lioness, he picks the lioness as per his wishes.To be the chief of the pack, lion has to go for a deadly fight against his rivals. Similarly other animals have to do the fight to be a chief.
Here the question comes in mind, why a lion wants to be the chief of the pack? Why he chose to go for a deadly fight to claim his authority?
One very obvious reason is food and other is the “Sex”. Similarly if you notice in other animals as dogs, bisons, deer, monkeys, wolves, bulls…. You will be surprised to see that these animals also go for a deadly fight to claim a female partner of their choice for mating.
Not only animal, even many birds have to fight for selecting their female partner for mating. Why sex is so much powerful that animals, birds and human have to go for a deadly fight?
Human history is full of all the evidences that many wars just happened because for a woman, whether it was “Ramayna, Mahabhart” and many more, however we have rare stories that women ever fought for a man.
In ancient India, it was well showoff of the power that how many queens a king have? Similarly in the gulf countries, A rich man or ruler (Ameer) has many wives and women in his “Haram”.
I guess, for a human, Sex is the symbol of a Prestige, Pleasure, Power and Prosperity in the society then how come it is a bad word in term of general usage?
If we look prosperous ancient India when it used to be known as a “Golden Bird”, “Sex” was pretty open at that time. We gave the first thesis on sex in the form of “Kamsutra” to the world, not only that “Khujrao” temples and “Ajanta Ellora” caves represent the openness of our society of that time. These arts/sculpture clearly shows that how much we were liberal about sex, not only that it also indicate that how much woman was independent and open about sex.
Gradually India lost its prime and sex became as a forbidden entities. It didn’t end it over here, as time passes India lost its confidence, power, prosperity and pride, in the result India starts treating women as a slave and arrest them inside the house forever.
If we read our “Vedas” and literatures, There are many descriptions about open sex or in other word “Gandharv Vivah” that's how come a man & woman could engage without formal marriage?
Now, living together is just a mere representation of “Gandharv Vivah”.
The same was true when “Roman” empire was in full of glory that time they were very open about sex. Woman & man were free to do it anywhere and anytime, it was merely a symbol of joy and prosperity.
In today’s world, why the western world is very liberal over sex comparable to Eastern, Because their countries are prosperous in respect to these countries?
Same trend, we are seeing in India in the last couple of years, since when Indian economy is booming.
I guess it is the only word available in the English literature which has tremendous power, only people are offended by using it, those have lost their pride , prosperity and power in the generations.
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