Nature tells us many things
in its own way, but we are not able to understand what exactly nature is trying
to tell us. Today, when I was walking on my lawn, falling leaves playing
with the wind and were trying to show their resistance no to go along with the
current of air. The leaves were trying to stay on the lawn grass, suddenly a
big gust of wind came and all the leaves scattered here and there and
some more fall down from the tree.
The wind was trying hard
to carry them, the leaves were feeling pressure and there was a sound of
their resistance not to go along with the wind. However, after a certain fight
between leaves and wind, some of the leaves stuck in a corner and some went
away.
I was watching this
ordinary scene very carefully , after some time I saw some more leaves start falling from the
trees, even though this time wind was very nominal.Some leaves were so pale
& weak that it seems they were looking a reason to fall from the trees,
even though, some were lavish green and still holding some life,
but were forced to knock down due to wind power ,some were just hanging with
tree to see their future that how long they survive before winter will
crushed them permanently.
The season of fall tells
us sooner or later nature will destroy whatever it has created, it's just a
matter of time when this will happen. The leaves have some define life, old
leaves have to go to make a way for coming new leaves.
Nature tells us, once the
leaves had been falling, it has happened for the permanent, there is no going
back. Can you put back falling leaves back to the tree, I am sure, even a fool
will not think to try this then why we act like such kind of a fool in real
life.
Here, I am talking about
relationships, it's an analogy with the leaves that whether it’s a human
relationship or leaves both have a defined life, when life is over they have to
lose their place.
However, we human doesn’t
understand this thing, we want to carry old relationships forever, although we
have got some new relations and in the future we are counting for more to come.
We do not want to accept the basic rule of the nature that if old will not
dispense their place them how new will take their positions?
Think about this, if the
tree does not through the old leaves, then how new leaves will come on the
tree? If newer does not come how tree will understand the change of weather and
bloom again?
Same applied in human
life, when we were kids, we have very closed relations with brothers, sisters,
uncles, cousin etc.. However, as we grow older and move on in the life, some
new relations come.
In the middle of the age,
We have a wife, kids and other new relatives due to marriage,
if we keep our focus on old relations how we will justify for the new. We can’t
be too serious forever for old relations. We have to be practical to
accept this fact that our time and resources are limited.
Same happened with
colleagues and friends, once you move on from one office to another, you
gradually forget your old colleagues and established new relationships with new
people. We can’t carry old relation with same way and energy what we used to do in the past.
Here time is acting like a
wind, which is forcing us to go along, however, we have still some resistance
to accept the brutal facts.
Sometime in the life we
were forced to break the relationships due to unavoidable circumstances, if we
keep reminding those mistakes which were the cause of the breakup, we can’t
move further. This is also a fact, once the string is broken, whatever we tried
to make it correct there will be a joint.
It’s the cruel way
of nature to teach us that life is just like a season, once the season is
over you have to depart and new will come.
Falling leaves keep on
telling us life is fragile, it will be over soon and when the time will come
all the relations will be useless.
Don’t cry for a loss of a
relationship, it was made for to be broken, it just matter of time today or
tomorrow.
If old does not go them
new can not come and cycle will stop.
It’s the nature of the
relations that some time we tried very hard to keep a string attach but could
not succeed even though we have not committed any mistakes, however relation
was meant to be broken. It could be our spouse, brother sister or friends.
Don’t waste your time to
make the things batter at the cost of hurting yourself, your surrender will not change anything, consider it’s a cycle of
nature and move on to new horizons…
By
Kapil Kumar
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