I think most of you have
heard this phrase, but I encountered with real time experiences to understand this in a very logical
manner.
Sometime in the life a strange experience gives us a lifelong lesson.
Today, I was waiting with my younger son for his school bus at the bus
stop. Suddenly, I saw a lady was waving her hand towards me to say Hi;
For a second, I could not
recognize her, but I waved my hand in the response just for the sake of the
courtesy and stand aside at the stop, that lady was still looking at me with
full of surprises. When I saw her again with caution, I was astonished to
see that she was none, though one of our neighbors Mrs. Singh.
In the previous occasions,
whenever I saw her, I saw her in fancy outfit with full makeup, but at this
moment, without nice outfit and makeup, it was hard to recognize her, she was
looking very different and ordinary lady.
At other times, whenever I
used to see Mrs. Singh, I have had very big envy with her husband that how
lucky he is having such a gorgeous wife. I had loved talking with her even
though I had no business to get engaged with her.
However, before this
incident, the attraction of her beauty was so much daunting that, it was very
hard to resist not seeing her with full glance,
Her one
glimpse used to give me the satisfaction as the quenching thrust of a person
who was desperately searching for a drop of water in the lost desert.
However, Today’s experience destroyed
my all fantasy castles of her beauty in a single wave, which I have made so far
at the sea shore of my wild imagination.
In other time this would
have been a perfect opportunity for me to gossip with her, but at this moment,
I was not thrilled at all. I kept my distance with her by shutting my mouth.
Somewhere
in the deep ocean of my soft feelings, I have lost my treasure of appreciations
for her beauty.She was no sexy or hot any more for me after watching her in a
real sense.
I told this incident to my
friend Tony, He listened the entire incident very patiently and after that
laughed for some time. He said, man,
“You
have just figured it out the cruel truth of the beauty”. Beauty is good only
when, you see it occasionally and far away.
I could not understand
or my mind was not able to accept the fact that how come someone
could be so dull and unattractive in normal life without fancy dress and
makeup?
I will tell you one
incident which has changed my whole philosophy about beauty, charm and attraction, Tony said.One day
he was drinking alone at a bar, there he encountered with a very hot and
sexy girl.
He saw
her like a bagger standing in front of the royal palace and expecting somehow a
princess will come outside from the palace and will accept him as her lover.
Suddenly, somehow
this miracle happened, maybe that day God was very generous to grant his wish,
this hot girl approached to him and showed the interest to take some
drinks with him.
After a couple of drinks,
she asked him to drop at her place which he considered as an honor without any
hesitation. After dropping at her home, she invited him for a cup of coffee,
where they end up doing some smooching and foul play.
After doing this for
quite some time, she suggested to take a join bath, where he got best
sponge bath of his life. Everything was happening like a movie script and
finally that moment came, which changed his philosophy about beauty, Tony said.
We were on the bed and I
was ready to hit the jackpot, I thought I have never tried with someone in the “doggy style”, I suggested her that, I want to try this, I was
surprised that she accepted my offer without any hesitation, Tony said further.
When we were in a right
position, I felt a big bad smell from her backside, It was so bad, I could not
stand for a second, it seems, she did not clean her potty properly, I was about
to puke on the bed, somehow I hold my breath.
I grabbed my clothes and
run away from there and never ever looked back. After finishing his story, he
took a big sigh and said man,
Outside
beauty is just an opening a Pandora’s Box, however, what could be inside this
is the real treasure.
If we look in real life, we will see thousands of examples,
which will prove more or less about the above statement.
Let us take a very famous
phrase that,
“Grass
always looks greener from the other side or someone's wife looks more beautiful
than our own wife”.
The truth is that, it does
not matter how beautiful or gorgeous or pretty is your wife, eventually after
some time, you will lose attraction, excitement in her beauty, you would not
find any charm in her.It could happen other way around, a wife may find no
smartness or attraction in her husband after some time.
You want to know why? When
we live with someone (spouse), we have to see all the phases of their life, you
will not only see your spouse in a fancy outfit with proper presentation all
the time.
There will be many
situations that you have to see her face without any makeup in early in the
morning, not only that sometime you have to encounter with her in
dirty, smelly clothes after restroom or kitchen or laundry work. Some time she
might have a disgusting face pack on her face or some coloring stuff on
hair though.
You have to see her bad
phase of monthly period, encountered with her while she might be taking some
nasty burp or maybe some time an ugly disgusting fart.
Same applied for the husband,
he might have some very disgusting habit of pocking nose, farting to loud or
bad habits of improper eating, smoking, drinking, chewing tobacco or snoring
etc.
All these daily events
gradually take away charm, excitement and romance from the couples, you would
not see any attraction or feel the beauty in your spouse even though he or she
may be a superstar in the world.
After sometimes beauty
lost its prime place from the couple's minds and heart,
gradually, instead of beauty/attraction, care, love and smartness takes their
place.
Next time when you see
some gorgeous women or spicy hot girl think twice that what could be the reality
behind the beautiful curtains?
Grass is
not always greener from the other side.
Note: “Opinions expressed
are those of the authors, and are not official statements. Resemblance to any
person, incident or place is purely coincidental”. The Author will not be
responsible for your deeds.
Does Planets or GemStone
create any effects??
I don’t know, how may of
you really believe in Gemstones? Recently, I read a blog about gemstones and
planets that a right Gemstone can change your fate. The fact is that, I have no
idea whether Gem Stones hold any kind of magic or power or have any relation
with humans at all?
As per the blog, the
writer claimed that a Gem color works with the combination of planet &
chakra.
However,
here, you should pay attention to one thing that all the Planets, Chakras and
Gems have pretty much common color or seven colors of the light.
Anyway, I have no
expertise or knowledge to comment on that, However, I look around in my
surrounding and brushed up my basic science to set up some interesting facts
about colors and their effects in our life.
These facts support
write’s claim up to some extend in a different way.
Let me ask you here, Have
you ever thought, why different professions have different colors of uniform?
No Idea, never mind, I
will try to explain later this. Anyway, After reading that blog, I thought
there must be some correlation between the color and human behavior that
why human behave, think and act differently when they wear different colors?
As per scientists, in our
solar system planets pretty much look like…
Earth…… Light Blue, Green or Brown, Uranus…. Light Blue, Pluto… light Brown, Jupiter…. Orange+white band, Saturn…. Pale Yellow, Mars….. Red/Orange, Venus… light yellow, Mercury…. Gray, Sun… Yellow
You may find planets color
descriptions little differ in the web site to web sites. Now, the question
comes in mind, why I wrote about planets colors here?
Technically, Sun is not a
planet, it has been conceived as a Star, all the planets have no illumination
at all then why we claim these planets have any color?
Technically, all the
planets get the lights from sun and after reflection and refraction from the
particular planet, the light color we see, we say this is the planet color.
Now, I come to the second
part of the puzzle and later on I will try to complete the puzzle. We have
learned so far that from the planets we get the light of these colors Blue,
Red, Orange, Green, Yellow, White, Gray.
If we look around and see,
in real life, what is the color of a uniform for a certain profession?
You will surprise to see a
correlation between the color of the uniform and the personality of a person.
You may have seen that the
majority of people in different countries has these standard color uniform e.g. White… Medical/Peace, Red..
Law enforcement/Attraction, Green.. Producer/Farmer, Blue.. Labor/Hands on,
Brown.. Manufacturing/force, Black… Sad/Cleaning/Dirty work/lawyer, Gray..
Power/force, Orange.. Alert/thief…. etc....
You may find these uniform
color little bit differ here and there depends upon country or region. However,
the question comes in mind what is the relevancy of a color with the
profession?
What I
concluded here is that, If we adopt a profession, which uniform has the matching
color of our favorite/ planet, then we have higher chances of the success.
Don’t forget that color should be your favorite color as well, otherwise it
will be a mismatch.
It may sound a little
strange but, if you look deep down, you may not be so much surprised.
Most of the time we are
surrounded by the people those have the uniform as per their profession or as
per our profession. Think about this, If you hate white color or your
temperament does not support for calmly behavior, then how would you be happy
or successful in the profession of medical or peace core.
Same applied for military
or police professions, You have to deal with this color effect in daily life.
If you do not agree with me, ask a police/military man, how he feels when has a
uniform. Same doctor feels more responsible and cautions when they have their
white apron on them.
Psychologically,
A specific uniform gives us a particular feeling, and the color of uniform play
a vital role in this.
Some people can argue
here, if there is no uniform them what will be the impact? For that I will say,
without uniform people, either fell to special or worthless to themselves.
Uniform creates a uniformity among human and a team spirit. Whether it’s a
school, force or place. We follow a certain dress code.
Even a boss who wears a
tie or his wife who has a specific dress for doing household work will feel
very strange without their proper gear.
Now, I come to the main
point, why we like or dislike a specific color?Are there something built in our
body system that specific planet has an influence on us, we either like or hate
that particular color?
Same philosophy applied for the Gemstone, as per my view, there is
nothing hidden in the gemstones, it’s pure psychological impacts of the color
in our brain system. When someone wears a gemstone of their favorite color, it
creates a positive effect with a sense of happiness,
which ultimately leads to higher confidence and improve decision taking power.
Technically, as a human we
like or dislike certain colors without any logical reason, there may be some
scientific explanation of this reason (I am guessing, the situation of the
planets at the birth time of an individual).
When we choose the right
profession of our favorite color, I am sure we should have higher chances of
success.
Gemstone, plants does not
emit or radiate any electromagnetic wave or light directly. Anything, whether
it’s light or wave comes from the Sun or the Stars of our galaxy. Planets just
reflect or refract sun's energy towards the earth.
Technically,
Planets are bound mutually to the rule of Gravitational forces, which may or
may not have an effect on the human brain, scientists do not know yet. Gemstone
or planet has no effects on us, it’s our mind who creates confidence, will
power, courage in our system.
Next time, when you wear
your uniform or go to work, ask yourself,
Do I like my uniform color
or Do I like my profession or do I like my surroundings, if not then why? And
the most important thing is what I like?
Your answer is the secret
of you happiness and success not a Gemstone or Chakra or Planet or anything.
By
Kapil Kumar
Note: “Opinions expressed are those of the authors, and
are not official statements. Resemblance to any person, incident or place is
purely coincidental”. The Author will not be responsible for your deeds.
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