The Soul Mate, a Myth OR Truth!

When I encountered the word soul mate, it always caused eagerness in my mind. 

The word “Soul Mate” has been used so many times by married & unmarried couples, that it seems like a mystery.

 What is a “Soul Mate?”I asked myself everytime.

Does it really matter to have a soul mate in your life?

Sometimes I think that a “Soul Mate” is the imagination of someone as perfect as you dream about them. Having a “Soul Mate” in your life is a truth or a myth.

I am not sure if there is such a thing possible in this universe; every person has some good and bad qualities. However, it could make a sense that you hate or love certain ones. Apparently, we have similar likes and dislikes that may cause an attraction or repulsion. Sometimes, we like a person who is entirely different than our own personality. Why we like someone opposite to our personality?

I think, when a person gets deception in a relationship or gets hurt by his lover, he thinks that it happened because she wasn’t my soul mate.

It seems like a soul mate is a kind of a person who has no defects and qualifies in all the standards that you have defined in your mind.

I realized that not everyone is looking for a “Soul Mate”. People that have a high thrust and a deep desire for love are hunting for a “Soul Mate”.

The rest of the folks might have heard about this by someone, but they don’t know what they are wishing for.

I researched this topic a lot to understand what this mystery held.

You might know that every soul (Or human being) has a vibration pattern. In the soul vibration, the two things that contribute to build a soul vibration are, The Amplitude and Frequency.

First, we should understand how Amplitude and Frequency relate to The Human Behavior before understanding the meaning of a “Soul Mate”?

An Amplitude decides our in-built actions, capabilities, or born talent.

 A Frequency decides our intensity or thrust for doing actions. This means, how much burning desire a person has inside or how much dedicated he is for achieving his dreams or goals.

Now, Let us understand this in a more refined way. A person who has an enormous amount of talent, but has no vision to utilize this talent, has a very high level of amplitude, but a very low level of frequency of his soul’s vibration.

Similarly, a person who has high goals in life, and wants to do something but was born with a low level of skills or talent and resources, has a very high level of frequency but a very low level of amplitude of the soul.

Not everyone born with an enormous talent and burning desires, only very few people have these things that may be the reason, why we cannot read or understand everyone’s soul vibration pattern?

If you are the person who has a high soul vibration but in the life stuck with such a partner, who has a very low soul vibration then it will cause a conflict of interest between you. You will be in the hunt for a “Soul Mate” and he/she will be surprised by your desire.

In this situation the person has high soul vibration should do one thing, either adopt this person the way she is and enlighten her with own pure “karma’s”. Otherwise, she will feel a guilt inside, which will bring you down in the life, in the result; you will feel as looser, depressed and lonely person.

Sometimes having a high soul vibration causes lot of pain to the person. Particularly when this person is surrounded by folks those have very low vibration. Their negative energy could cause pain to this person. These folks will manipulate and use him for their own benefit. This person has no choice except to go in the sink hole of life misery.

If two people engaged in the life have a high soul vibration they can contribute each other a lot in the life. If one has high amplitude and other has high frequency that is the best combination for them. By mixing both vibration patterns they can build a perfect spectrum. Which will not only good for their enlighten, even it will give a positive mark in the society.

If one has high amplitude (talent) and other has high frequency (thrust / determination), even though this combination can go very smooth. You can see some couples those are odd but look as they are made for each other.

Now problem comes for the couple those are miss matched. One has higher soul vibration but other has very low. They are not happy couple .Person that has higher vibration will be looking for  more love, passion and want to do something in the life but could not succeed due to negative impact produced by his partner.

This person, always in search for a soul mate but problem is that he cannot succeed in the life, due to his sublime soul. This will stop him to do anything evil for others.

Their situation will be as a prisoner, who wants to break this prison, has a capability to do that but can’t do just because he was born not to hurt anyone and deliver well to the near & dear.

For a person who has higher vibration, Soul mate is not just for his love life, it is a nature which defined how compatible you are for each other. You can fall in love to any person regardless, whether she has a soul vibration or not but cannot hold your love for her for a long time. It will be a compromise with your nature, attitude and talent that will force you later on to go for search for a “Soul Mate”.

In the end only one thing I can suggest if you think love is the most important factor in your life then “Never Ever “compromise for this. Otherwise in this life you will be in the hunt for a “Soul Mate” and rest of your life, you will be very frustrated, lost and depressed “Soul”.

First,Search yourself than searching for a “Soul Mate”.

By 
Kapil Kumar

Note: - “Opinions expressed are those of the authors, and are not official statements. Resemblance to any person, incident or place is purely coincidental.' ”